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» Anger as a dark motivational technique
Fri Sep 14, 2018 9:18 am by D3lt4

» Learning while helping others to heal
Wed Aug 22, 2018 4:14 pm by Feisty

» Surrender vs. Control
Tue Jul 24, 2018 9:10 pm by D3lt4

» Keep getting new tabs
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» Rejection to authority figures
Sat May 26, 2018 1:53 pm by kibou

» (Being a robot) Too much altruism and giving too much of yourself
Wed May 23, 2018 4:55 am by Jenimaz

» NPD vs Codependency -- inborn nature of sensitive vs. not senstive?
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» Childhood Neglect
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» Question for Richard - Flashbacks at same time as present situations anxiety
Sun May 20, 2018 7:38 pm by Jenimaz

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Learning while helping others to heal

Fri Aug 10, 2018 3:03 pm by D3lt4

Since there are so few or none psychologists that can actually help and understand our issues, I am helping my sister and my mother to recover.

My mother wants to recover, my sister is less aware how deep in shit she is..... she has the superego guardians very alert, thus making it quite difficult any type of interaction. Almost any talk is very violent (on her side) no matter how flat is my …

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Keep getting new tabs

Mon Jun 25, 2018 11:49 pm by wepnode

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This is only one of the new tabs that open up, when i come to this site.  It's been occurring for a few weeks now.  I don't remember what the other ones were.   Anyone else?

Also, this site is not secure.

Rejection to authority figures

Sat May 26, 2018 1:53 pm by kibou

Hi there!

This is related with things I am reading about criminal psychology, I lately came up with the idea that maybe the resistance I have to believe in God is rooted in the abusive experience of my narcissistic father. Maybe I identify any authority figure with my father, for this reason I cannot love God or anyone who represents some form of power over myself. How does this sound like? Does …

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Empathy vs. Compassion

Sun Oct 23, 2016 8:15 pm by KatC

On one of the recent videos Richard pointed out that Americans view empathy and compassion as virtually the same thing and then he went on to clarify the distinction between them and the importance that we realize that distinction.  I found that very helpful in my understanding of narcissism as I paired that knowledge with "cold empathy" as noted by Sam Vaknin.  I'm now under the …

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America Tour

Wed Sep 27, 2017 9:12 pm by wepnode

It's just a shame that one can't stay informed about these gifts, - see details, or plan to attend - WITHOUT participating in Facebook.  I would have been THRILLED to attend.

Phrases you might hear

Thu Jun 30, 2016 8:21 pm by zebrage

I think it can sometimes be difficult to decide whether what we faced as children was in fact emotional abuse or whether it was normal and we're just sensitive. Sometimes when I read people's posts on here, and they describe something similar to what I experienced, I feel validated by it. So I would like to know what phrases people heard as children that you found to be invalidating. Perhaps at …

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ucla seminar q

Sun Nov 12, 2017 9:33 pm by daisy4

hi all!  i'm not really sure if this post belongs in the general section or not?  anyhoo, I just watched Richards latest vid: the ucla seminar.  freaking awesome as always.  I just wanted to post a suggestion or realization I had.  someone asked why the npd destroys nons in the discard.  rich answered that it makes them feel powerful. yes! totally.  gratification...BUT... the covert npd …

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How to be invisible from your narc online

Tue May 19, 2015 2:07 pm by gigiminer

Not really - more like how to be almost invisible - for those who may wish to post but don't know how to manage without getting caught by the narc.  A few possible solutions - tho' I realize that not everyone can find space and time to manage to get out of the monitoring of their situation.

*Use a computer not your own (library, café, friend) Because sometimes they put keystroke software on …

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How to help someone who is a victim of narcissistic abuse and does not it

Mon Sep 25, 2017 9:40 pm by kibou

As my recovery seems to improve, other type of problems arise.

I am surprised to find that there were so many blood suckers next to me. My my "best friend" was a narc. I was horrified when he even admitted. It's amazing that they do not care to admit it openly.

The most surprising one was my aunt. This was totally unexpected.

My mother is on the way to the recovery after more than 3 …

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