After almost 40 years away I have moved back to the bosom of my family and discovered that I am the scapegoat. For much of the last 3+ decades I thought it was only because we were on the opposite side politically and also that I am not religious enough(we were not raised with religion). Living far away meant that we only had to manage to get along for short visits through the years but after I moved back there were so many more incidents of mean spirited teasing and I realized there was more to it. I've since distanced myself from them all and I am happier. My question, and that's why I'm here, is.....Once we have better understanding and start establishing the necessary boundaries in all of our relationships, is it typical to have a turbulent time with old and new friends as well?
Having been fascinated, as well as overwhelmed with this new information, I shared it with people. It's so hard to stay in the closet with something so life altering, but I think that may have been a mistake. People really don't seem to understand and I think upon hearing my story tend to be wary of me. Is this a common response?
Having been fascinated, as well as overwhelmed with this new information, I shared it with people. It's so hard to stay in the closet with something so life altering, but I think that may have been a mistake. People really don't seem to understand and I think upon hearing my story tend to be wary of me. Is this a common response?