I am still trying to figure out how to deal with this particular "thing".
Triggered Guilt
Any input welcome - how do you, as a healing individual, figure out what is yours and what is not? How do you know when you need to buck up and apologize for something because you want to be a decent human being and how do you know when it's not yours and either a flashback or a current manipulation in action?
I'm an INFJ, HSP/HSE, 43 AQ. Does that affect my perspectives? Quite likely, but surely there must be some way to tell what's ours and what's not. It's one of those things I seem to trip over consistently and I just have no idea how to figure it out.
Triggered Guilt
Any input welcome - how do you, as a healing individual, figure out what is yours and what is not? How do you know when you need to buck up and apologize for something because you want to be a decent human being and how do you know when it's not yours and either a flashback or a current manipulation in action?
I'm an INFJ, HSP/HSE, 43 AQ. Does that affect my perspectives? Quite likely, but surely there must be some way to tell what's ours and what's not. It's one of those things I seem to trip over consistently and I just have no idea how to figure it out.