Seeing child who trauma bonded with Cluster B father after 5 year absence

Greetings,
My objective is healing relationship with adult daughter. Growing up with Cluster B along with emotional shut down mother did a lot of damage. She bonded with father during divorce( he bought her car, housing,etc) After 8 year gap she wants me to visit. She blocked memories . What question can I ask to see if she wants to pursue healing or do I keep it superficial . My concern is this has had a very negative effect on her life