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I want to go no contact with my Covert N Mother and enabling father however whenever they contact me I feel unable to pull away because of guilt and duty towards them. They are in their 70's with ill health (although my NM has faked/over exaggerated illness for both of them throughout my whole life for attention and to get her own way/ as an excuse for her bad behaviour).
My sister has already gone no contact and is much happier in her life. I want to follow but I just can't seem to get over the guilt I feel in doing this?
I am afraid of the future when the time comes when one of them dies (probably my father) because I am expecting my NM to kick off BIG TIME and she will expect me to replace my fathers enmeshed role. I want to go no contact before this event happens as I don't want her abusing me any more in my life than she has already.
My sister has already gone no contact and is much happier in her life. I want to follow but I just can't seem to get over the guilt I feel in doing this?
I am afraid of the future when the time comes when one of them dies (probably my father) because I am expecting my NM to kick off BIG TIME and she will expect me to replace my fathers enmeshed role. I want to go no contact before this event happens as I don't want her abusing me any more in my life than she has already.
