by JamieB Tue Oct 09, 2018 11:59 am
Thank you for those links. I will check them out. In short, my answer to your Q how do you detach, read the untethered soul, it is literally the manual on it. You make a good point though, if it has protected you for some time it has a purposes so it shouldn’t be seen as needing to be demonised. It’s like that for a reason.
Long answer, on how to detach. Detach is not the word I’ll use. I prefer “centred” when you are centred, you are in the one place that can maintain permanence with no effort. There is no doing anything, you just sit in witness consciousness and observe. You are not your thoughts or feelings. You are the one who experiences them. You are also the one who notices them. If this is true, then all that is required is to sit and notice.
Whilst doing this, let go, relax. You need to observe relaxed because the idea is to let it pass. If it passes it is gone, it can only pass when you stay centred on “watching it” (it being the rampant dialogue of thoughts and feelings).
There is an ancient concept of trapped and blocked energy repressed within the body , a repressed memory or pain arises and attempts to pass when it is triggered. This is the flashback, it’s not you going crazy it’s the energy trying to unblock. It is refered to in Sanskrit as a Samskara (you’ll have to check this- I’m going off the top of my head here). The resulting feeling is unease, fear, anxiety, depression etc, it’s a trauma anchor. When it arises, one clenches up to prepare what is thought to be needed based upon the pain response. OR one gets lost in the dialogue of shit thoughts. The irony though, in this process you block it further, it never gets out. You will need to read untethered soul to get this concept fully. One needs to watch it like it’s a movie, not be it or do it, but watch it.
An example. You walk into a meeting room or room where others are gathered. You look down and hold a belief - I’m being judged - whatever it is. At that point, you have isolated the world (external) and gone full echo chamber (internal). You’ve lost the opportunity to release. You’re echo chamber (internal dialogue) feeds you a steady diet of bullshit the world cannot validate as true or false. So you walk away the same.
Now , replay it, this time though, walk into the room. Stop, look around , look at everyone individually if you must. You have received extenal real world feedback that contradicts your echo chamber. The result? You’ll realise no one was looking at you, in this instant, you get calibrated and the samskara is gone.