When my boyfriend left me for another woman in October, I had no knowledge about narcisstic abuse. I was left feeling crazy, fat, uggly and not good enough for anyone. My exboyfriend accused me of being a psycopath, so around Christmas I googled to find out if he was right. Well, I was in for a big surprice. When I learned about the red flags I realized I was a victim of narcisstic abuse.
Since then, the learning curb has been rather steep. I have watched you tube, I have read books, i have searched every possible Source of wisdom on this topic and I am getting wiser by the day. I am ever so thankfull to the work of Spartan Life Coach. You have made this complex material easy to understand. Trough the "First aid kit" I found Tools that helped me Coop With my situation.
I knew the relationship was unhealthy. Trough the 3 years we where together he broke up With me 27 times, always claiming that it was "something wrong" With me that he could not pinpoint. So I went NC in october, without knowing how important this was. I also wrote a cronological journal of all the crazyness. Its been a rough Journey, but finally I see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Since then, the learning curb has been rather steep. I have watched you tube, I have read books, i have searched every possible Source of wisdom on this topic and I am getting wiser by the day. I am ever so thankfull to the work of Spartan Life Coach. You have made this complex material easy to understand. Trough the "First aid kit" I found Tools that helped me Coop With my situation.
I knew the relationship was unhealthy. Trough the 3 years we where together he broke up With me 27 times, always claiming that it was "something wrong" With me that he could not pinpoint. So I went NC in october, without knowing how important this was. I also wrote a cronological journal of all the crazyness. Its been a rough Journey, but finally I see the light at the end of the tunnel.